FNU to you too !
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Dont worry, I am not swearing at you. FNU stands for First Name Unknown !!! When Shakesphere wrote “What’s in a name? That which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet”, its obvious he had not gone through the paper work of USA. Part of the experience of working in the USA, one would come to realize the paranoia around the name in the paper work.
This is a post on how I came to be called “FNU Murali Subramanyan” in the United States of America and my experience trying to get that corrected.
In my most recent passport renewal, the Indian passport office decided to quote my whole name, “Murali Subramanyan” as my given name. Which meant that the space given for the surname was empty. When I went and checked with the passport office, they told me that all passports issued in India will have the father’s name first and the given name next in the same line. I now realize it was just an answer given be a lazy government servant. On that passport, I had my B1 US visa stamped and made a trip to the US and back with out any problems. But this was the first time I noticed FNU stamped next to my name. At the time, I just assumed that it was the many codes or sequences in the Visa that meant some thing meaningful to somebody. I never realized it was actually part of my identity. When I moved to USA for a longer work engagement on a L1 visa, yet again I noticed thee FNU next to my name.
The problems started when I went to get my Social Security Number. A very grumpy officer at the SSN office informed me that the name I entered on my I-94, the name on my Visa and the name on my passport did not match!! That was the first time I got to know that FNU was actually First name Unknown. He went ahead and completed the SSN application with first name FNU and last name MURALI SUBRAMANYAN. So my first legal document in the USA told me that my first name was unknown.
I did some research on the internet and found out that I was not the only person with this problem. Many people before me had gone through “The curse of the FNU” as one blogger called it. Surprisingly, this blog post is the best source of information for correcting the problem.
I am a very impatient guy when it comes to things that affect me directly. I wanted a way out of this mess and was getting restless.
The moment I got my SSN card I decided to go back to the SSN office to try and get my name changed in the card to show the name as given in the I-94. A rude lady told me that until I get my name changed in the passport, nothing can be done. She even went on to say that I will need to get a new visa stamp too. So, with my options cut down, I took a day off to go to the Indian Consulate in San Francisco. I reached the consulate at about 11 am and was quiet far in the queue. Many sites and regulations would advice to get the name changed in the passport by applying for a new passport. This is probably a good idea if you have time. But because I needed to get on with my paperwork, I choose to get an endorsement done on my passport for a name split as suggested by many in the blog post. This is probably the fastest and cheapest alternative. The lady at the passport service counter was really helpful and courteous. I had all the documentation ready, including a notary signed affidavit requesting for the name split ( Any friendly neighborhood notary and 5$ will get you an notarized affidavit ). She informed me that the endorsement on the passport will be done the same day and I would be able to collect the passport at 4pm.
Once I got my passport back, I got an Info Pass appointment with the USCIS office in San Jose to get my I-94 and immigration status verified. I had an early morning appointment, so I was among the first few who got into the office. The officer there checked the name on the passport and acknowledged the endorsement. She confirmed that all the necessary records with USCIS and homeland security were in order.
Now armed with a new found confidence that the SSN name change will go through, I went to the SSN office on a work day afternoon, which incidentally was my birthday. Mr. Thomas was by far the most friendly officer I met so far in any office here. He helped me with a smile and accepted my application and said “I am sorry I cannot bake you an birthday cake, but I will help you with your problem”. God bless him. He completed the process and gave me a case reference number in a printed sheet that I could use as reference if someone questioned the name again. The next day I went to the DMV office and cleared my written test. Now I have a temporary driving license with my name given correctly. Finally the legal documents in this land acknowledges me as first name Subramanyan, last name Murali :-)
I now am waiting for my new SSN card and my Califronia state ID to reach me. Wish luck for the DMV behind the wheel exam. If any of you reading this post have the same issue or similar issues, please do email me at mail [at] rmsguhan.com. I can explain things in more detail. Through this experience, I am pretty sure I am aware of most of the offices and procedures. Happy new year !
2 Years
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2 years ago on this day, sporting a wide smile and dressed up in a grand saree, a beautiful lady sat next to me tossing stuff the priest gave us into the holy fire. Our parents stood behind us, almost blessing us every second, and a huge audience in front of us, all set to literally shower us with their blessings. The celebration reached its crescendo at 9:30 am in the morning, every one eagerly waiting for the all important index finger flick by the high priest. And exactly at 9:40 am, the music had more base, it was raining rice and I was working my way up to a complex double knot of a turmeric coated thread!! We were no longer single, we were smiling, we were married !
I know its a cliche, but time sure does fly. 2 years has zipped past, and it stills feels like it was just the day before that we were rushing through the preparations for the wedding. Its been an amazing 2 years, lots of fun memories, the couple getaways, the gifts, the celebrations, decorating our home, the parties, the great food, the little fights, the big gestures, the love notes, caring, being cared for and most important of them all Happy times.
All through our lives, the wedding day is hyped up to be this momentous day in ones life when supposedly every thing begins to change and we are expected to have this great epiphany of all things grown up and mature. In retrospect, I personally dont have any horror stories to share about the wedding contrary to popular belief. It was a fun day, when 24 hours felt more like 10 minutes. Over the 2 years, we got to hear many stories about our wedding day, different perspectives and little incidents around the function. It almost seems that people who attended the wedding had more fun and remember it a lot more than the bride and groom. Which is why I always say, the wedding is for the people attending, the marriage is for the bride and groom.
So today, as we celebrate our 2nd wedding anniversary, I am happy to have some one who I can call my better half. I have enjoyed this phase of my life, its been different for sure, but in a good way. Its been full of interesting moments, moments that you remember, moments that you cherish, moments that you learn from, moments that you hate, scary moments etc. Having that special someone witness all those moments relevant to you with out judgment or prejudice is what my marriage has meant to me.
Wishing for many more happy moments.
IISC University Hack Day
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I was part of yet another Hack U. This was a first for me because it was at Indian Institute of science and all the students there are PhD students and doing heavy research work. It was a good experience talking with them because their view information and computer science is completely different. They are more focused on the science, algorithms, efficiency and more core problems. Me on the other hand am more about the applications and the end user experience side of things. So the discussions with the students was really interesting.
I blogged about this on YDN, so check out my YDN blog post
