FNU to you too !
Posted by Guhan | Filed under Events
Dont worry, I am not swearing at you. FNU stands for First Name Unknown !!! When Shakesphere wrote “What’s in a name? That which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet”, its obvious he had not gone through the paper work of USA. Part of the experience of working in the USA, one would come to realize the paranoia around the name in the paper work.
This is a post on how I came to be called “FNU Murali Subramanyan” in the United States of America and my experience trying to get that corrected.
In my most recent passport renewal, the Indian passport office decided to quote my whole name, “Murali Subramanyan” as my given name. Which meant that the space given for the surname was empty. When I went and checked with the passport office, they told me that all passports issued in India will have the father’s name first and the given name next in the same line. I now realize it was just an answer given be a lazy government servant. On that passport, I had my B1 US visa stamped and made a trip to the US and back with out any problems. But this was the first time I noticed FNU stamped next to my name. At the time, I just assumed that it was the many codes or sequences in the Visa that meant some thing meaningful to somebody. I never realized it was actually part of my identity. When I moved to USA for a longer work engagement on a L1 visa, yet again I noticed thee FNU next to my name.
The problems started when I went to get my Social Security Number. A very grumpy officer at the SSN office informed me that the name I entered on my I-94, the name on my Visa and the name on my passport did not match!! That was the first time I got to know that FNU was actually First name Unknown. He went ahead and completed the SSN application with first name FNU and last name MURALI SUBRAMANYAN. So my first legal document in the USA told me that my first name was unknown.
I did some research on the internet and found out that I was not the only person with this problem. Many people before me had gone through “The curse of the FNU” as one blogger called it. Surprisingly, this blog post is the best source of information for correcting the problem.
I am a very impatient guy when it comes to things that affect me directly. I wanted a way out of this mess and was getting restless.
The moment I got my SSN card I decided to go back to the SSN office to try and get my name changed in the card to show the name as given in the I-94. A rude lady told me that until I get my name changed in the passport, nothing can be done. She even went on to say that I will need to get a new visa stamp too. So, with my options cut down, I took a day off to go to the Indian Consulate in San Francisco. I reached the consulate at about 11 am and was quiet far in the queue. Many sites and regulations would advice to get the name changed in the passport by applying for a new passport. This is probably a good idea if you have time. But because I needed to get on with my paperwork, I choose to get an endorsement done on my passport for a name split as suggested by many in the blog post. This is probably the fastest and cheapest alternative. The lady at the passport service counter was really helpful and courteous. I had all the documentation ready, including a notary signed affidavit requesting for the name split ( Any friendly neighborhood notary and 5$ will get you an notarized affidavit ). She informed me that the endorsement on the passport will be done the same day and I would be able to collect the passport at 4pm.
Once I got my passport back, I got an Info Pass appointment with the USCIS office in San Jose to get my I-94 and immigration status verified. I had an early morning appointment, so I was among the first few who got into the office. The officer there checked the name on the passport and acknowledged the endorsement. She confirmed that all the necessary records with USCIS and homeland security were in order.
Now armed with a new found confidence that the SSN name change will go through, I went to the SSN office on a work day afternoon, which incidentally was my birthday. Mr. Thomas was by far the most friendly officer I met so far in any office here. He helped me with a smile and accepted my application and said “I am sorry I cannot bake you an birthday cake, but I will help you with your problem”. God bless him. He completed the process and gave me a case reference number in a printed sheet that I could use as reference if someone questioned the name again. The next day I went to the DMV office and cleared my written test. Now I have a temporary driving license with my name given correctly. Finally the legal documents in this land acknowledges me as first name Subramanyan, last name Murali :-)
I now am waiting for my new SSN card and my Califronia state ID to reach me. Wish luck for the DMV behind the wheel exam. If any of you reading this post have the same issue or similar issues, please do email me at mail [at] rmsguhan.com. I can explain things in more detail. Through this experience, I am pretty sure I am aware of most of the offices and procedures. Happy new year !
Lifestyle outside the box
Posted by Guhan | Filed under thoughts
This post is coming in a little too late, but better late then never. Like most DINK’s ( dual income no kids ) working in the high tech industry, we too decided to go experience the green bill fantasy in the silicon valley. Moving out and settling into a life is harder than one thinks. When you go over the procedures and various relocation service provider introduction mails, you tend to believe that the whole thing is going to be like a walk in the cloud. But you realize that that while “walk in the cloud” may get some literary applause, the practicality of it is actually quiet a daunting task. So in the last 4 months, its been a lot of paper work, coordination, set up, tear down, negotiation, decisions and compromises. But the one that seemed to fascinate me the most was the how our lifestyle went in and came out of cardboard boxes. In an earlier blog post, I talked about how we ended up packing most of the stuff we had into 28 boxes. Now after coming over to the US of A, it was time to unpack all the boxes and set up a home away from home. But this time around, it was not just the 28 odd boxes we had shipped from India, it was a whole new set of boxes that brought in more stuff that seems to define a lifestyle we want. Boxes seem to take so much importance, that even the choice of house was dictated by how much box storage room the apartment home had. So no prizes for guessing, our home does have a very large storage room. Putting stuff into a cardboard box is kinda interesting at first, because you tend to work your brain trying to optimize on how much stuff you can put in. Its like putting together a puzzle, where each piece is an object of different size,weight and fragility level that you intelligently place to minimize the number of boxes used, but still optimize the quality of the shipment. This is what fascinates me, its the engineer in me who wants to solve things. But the interest level sticks on only for a few boxes. After that its just the need to get the job done.
Everyone will agree that un-boxing is always a much more interesting part. I would like to call it the “rip open” syndrome ( that was not too intelligent ) Its the kid in you who acts out the opening the presents / gifts every time you want to empty the contents of a box and its always much faster to rip open a packaging than putting it together. So when our shipment did arrive, everything was unpacked within a matter of 20 minutes.
As I said before, our settling into the home away from home was characterized by the arrival of more stuff in boxes. In an economy that is defined by your purchasing power, we too were seduced into the materialistic craving . We were warned enough about the “do it yourself” lifestyle of the west, the Ikea nesting instinct. So this just means more stuff comes intelligently packed in cardboard boxes. So as we fed our craving, the boxes just piled up in our large storage room. Some stuff we needed, some we really could have done with out. There was some stuff that was just impulse purchase and few more luxury items. But every thing big or small came in a cardboard box.
As engineers we are rewarded for thinking outside the box, the reward for relocation is a lifestyle outside the box.
